Are Gender Reveal Parties Still Relevant?
As society continues to reexamine gender identify and what gender really means to different people, are gender reveal parties still relevant when expecting a new baby?
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Whether itโs pink and blue cakes, exploding piรฑatas, popped balloons or cheesy signs, weโve all seen gender reveal parties go the extra mile to announce the sex of a new baby. Over the past few years, the popularity of gender reveal parties has grown tremendously, and now many are wondering, are gender reveal parties still relevant? Sparked by the rise of social media, gender reveal parties are a way for expecting parents to announce the biological sex of their baby to their friends, family and potentially their social media audience. While this is a harmless celebration, turning an intimate moment into a large-scale event has caused many to question both the accuracy of the term โgender revealโ and the idea of parties that announce a babyโs gender altogether.ย
Why People are Questioning Gender Reveal Parties
So the question remains, are gender reveal parties still relevant? Perhaps they just need a new name? Because society as a whole is reexamining gender identity and slowly becoming more accepting of various gender identities, many would argue that it is not up to parents to host gender reveal parties for a child who canโt choose their gender identity yet. For all we know, they may not identify with the typical blue for boys and pink for girls!ย
Gender reveal parties should more accurately be called genitals reveal parties...although, that doesnโt sound like a party Iโd want to attend.ย
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Gender reveal parties may be less relevant, but I doubt they will ever become irrelevant. After all, Pinterest is alive and kicking and full of ways to make anything a party! While making assumptions about gender is not new, society is changing, and peopleโs opinions are changing with it, forcing parents to face tough decisions about how theyโre going to raise their children. Having a party to reveal โguns or glitterโ doesnโt say anything about gender or biological sex because men and women continue to crush gender norms every day. Expectant parents should be mindful of the pressure theyโre putting on gender identity both before and after their baby is born.
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Defending Gender Reveal Partiesย
Now that weโve seen all of the ways gender reveal parties are bad for society, letโs talk about one more important thing: theyโre supposed to be FUN. No expecting parent goes into their big gender reveal party thinking about their unborn childโs identity. They simply want to celebrate with their partner, friends and family. At least, thatโs what I hope everything is thinking!ย
Defending gender reveal parties is not meant to be malicious. Itโs not to say that expecting parents donโt care about their childโs gender identity. Itโs just a name of a celebration that happens to be about reveal a fetusโs genitals. Celebrate it, or just cherish the moment for yourself! Either way, letโs leave the mom shaming out of it. Just always be kind and accepting of the child or children you have, and be prepared to accept that they make break gender barriers, but of course, youโll love them no matter what.ย
Whatโs your take on gender reveal parties? Have you had one or will you have one?
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Comments
Debbie said:
Itโs a BOY or itโs a GIRL
Pretty easy…only 2 ways it can be. That this is even a discussion is extremely disturbing.